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While
this was continuing, life went on. Shortly after we arrived home
from Florida, Kathi and Dirk arrived from Florida to attend a baby
shower for David's sister Kim. Dirk entertained the ladies and opened
each package, showing the contents like a fashion show.
We put Dirk and Kathi
on a plane on Tuesday Aug 21. Wednesday morning, Mary and I headed
out (by car) for her High School's 50th class reunion in Rochester, NY. Taking our
time as we usually do we arrived in the area on Thursday evening which
we spent visiting with our niece and nephews with dinner at a
local barbeque place on the banks overlooking the Erie Canal. The weekend
of Aug 24-26 was a mini-vacation as we stayed at a local Holiday Inn
Express, aren't we "smart"?. The big weekend began on Friday
afternoon with a tour of the John Marshall High School building. Mary was blown away
by the fact that the physical plant had not changed, save for the
graffiti and probably gang signs which were unheard of in the late 50's.
The other noticeable change was that the school is no longer the
neighborhood school of the late 50s. The Rochester School District
has created small specialized academies at each city high school drawing
students from all over the city. This creates a much more diverse
student body than the neighborhood school of the 50s. The idea of
the academies is to draw students based on interest. Once
enrolled, they must maintain proper grades in the core courses (English,
Math, History, etc.) to remain in their favorite courses. Mary commented
that the girls shower looked the same and she could hear the gym teacher
cajoling students to get wet. Friday evening the main party was
held at a local Banquet house with the usual comments, introduction of
the planning committee and other comments surrounded a family style
dinner. Most eye-opening thing at the party was the poster containing
the high school yearbook photos of the 40 students who had passed away.
At my reunion they had mentioned the number and the names in the program
but the pictures really bring it home. At my reunion in 2003 there were
13 not with us, but our graduating class was considerably smaller about
70 to Mary's 220 so I guess statistically 40 is not surprising.
However, when you see it, it certainly gives you pause. On Saturday,
those interested attended a picnic at a local American Legion Post.
While there we found out that it is an annual affair sponsored for all
John Marshall grads. Each year area alumni from Marshall attend.
It also gave me a chance as a Legionnaire to visit another Post where
Mary and I enjoyed a very affordably priced adult beverage.
Saturday night found a small group of participants attending the
ballgame of the local Triple-A Rochester Red Wings. It was a
lovely evening, and even though it turned out to be a loss all had a
good time anyway. The final reunion event was a Sunday brunch at a local
country club. This was an opportunity for hugs and goodbyes and
the usual promises to keep in touch. After the brunch we spent
some time at the home of Mary's best friend and Matron of Honor looking
at pictures and reminiscing. We then went to spend the remainder
of the afternoon with the family again. This time we enjoyed one
of nephew Matt's barbequed chicken and sausage along with fresh corn
from the Gentleman farmer's garden.
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